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Posted by Marty Stanley on
 October 3, 2022 

Why Not? Travel with Marty and Jerry

October 3, 2022: Last week I wrote my last “official” blog – Time To Say Goodbye. The responses from people were overwhelming and I cried with each note of support and appreciation.  I can’t thank you enough! So, rather than saying goodbye completely, we can say hello to staying connected in a new way, if […]

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Posted by Marty Stanley on
 September 25, 2022 

Time To Say Goodbye

Jerry and I were sitting in the gazebo, gazing at the lights of the harbor of Christiansted, listening to Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman singing “Time to Say Good Bye.” I was lamenting about feeling challenged to write my next blog. 20 Years Of Writing You see, between 2003 – 2007 I wrote monthly articles […]

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Posted by Marty Stanley on
 July 18, 2022 

And The Answer Is…

For the past 2 years I have written about the “miracle” of meeting the perfect man for me (PMFM) after being single for 35 years. Finding The Right One If you’re curious about this miracle meeting and back-story, click on this link to read more about how I was looking for love and Jerry was […]

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Posted by Marty Stanley on
 June 7, 2022 

Let’s Go On An Adventure

I bought this wall hanging about 4 years ago, and placed it with my pictures from Hawaii, Bora Bora, France and St. Maarten, as a reminder to never stop creating adventures in my life. It is one of the few household items I brought with me to St. Croix 2 years ago. Be Careful What […]

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Posted by Marty Stanley on
 April 26, 2022 

Marking Time/Witness To Your Life

Well, it’s been about 600 days. 600 days or 14,400 hours or 864,000 minutes. That’s how long Jerry and I have been together – 24/7. I wrote a blog last year marking 365 days because that was a pretty remarkable record for me. And here we are, 14,400 hours later, and I still think he’s […]

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Posted by Marty Stanley on
 March 28, 2022 

70 Is The New 50; 80 Is The New 60

My mother used to call me her “Danielle Steele Daughter.” And just like the fantasy romance novels, I was the 40-year-old corporate executive (with porcelain skin and sea green eyes…) dating the dashing entrepreneur, 20 years my senior… with silver hair, sapphire blue eyes, a luxury yacht and several homes. What the story book novel […]

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Posted by Marty Stanley on
 January 3, 2022 

Reflections on Resolutions, Intentions and Rituals

For over 20 years, on New Year’s Eve I‘ve had a very elaborate ritual of creating intentions for the upcoming year. For simplicity, here’s a blog from 2014 that outlines a fun and rewarding way to kick the habit of failed New Year’s resolutions and charts a course for success. Though, for some reason, this […]

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Posted by Marty Stanley on
 December 5, 2021 

Living The Island Life

For three years I wrote blogs called “Living the Dream”  that were reflections on moving from the Midwest to Southern California. Now, I’m I’m living a new dream – life on St. Croix or STX. Here are some random thoughts after one year of island life. Island Life Is In The Genes Island life isn’t for […]

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Posted by Marty Stanley on
 November 8, 2021 

How To Make Your Wish Come True – Part 1 – Clarity

We learn at an early age about making wishes through rhymes and rituals. “Star light, star bright, First star I see tonight, I wish I may, I wish I might, Have this wish I wish tonight.” Anonymous   Make a wish before you blow out the candles on your birthday cake!   “How to wish […]

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Posted by Marty Stanley on
 September 19, 2021 

24/7/365

365 days ago my life changed dramatically. After 35 years of being a single, corporate executive and business owner, I entered into the biggest merger of my life. First – Divest To do that, I had to divest myself of almost all my physical assets: furnishings, crystal, furs, artwork and even my coffee maker, to […]

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